
Hi Jack!
I need yr advice concerning my very well hung bf. he's Dutch, 32 yrs old, 6 ft 4, 215 lbs with a real 10 1/2 inch dick n 6 1/2 around. My bf swears he comes from a family of well hung guys. Well, I tried his 2 other brothers both of which are also endowed but not as massive as my bf.
My question is this: Im about 5 ft '7, 145 lbs, tight smooth ass and have always tried taking his whole cock in but to no avail.
Do u know any positions which wud facilitate me taking his whole cock inside me? Some people say that maybe I need to relax my spinchter some more. I cud get up to the second to the last inch inside but no more. My bf also says he feels sliding in a second hole. Is this true? In yr experience as a pornographer nand seeing really really big dicks getting inside one's ass, how do the bottoms mnage to take it all? Can you recommend the best positions on how to take the whole big cock fully in one's ass? Is crystal or sex encahncing drugs? Thanks for yr advice.
JUNE from Amsterdam
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Dear June,
First let me warn you that crystal is absolutely the WRONG path to take to get more dick in you. Sure, it may help, but it will ultimately do you far more permanent harm than the temporary "good" you might experience. Please take a few minutes to familiarize yourself with my Meth Lab page. I would rather see you enjoy a few glasses of good wine or a couple of shots of liqueur to get your man all the way in you, than have you become addicted to that horrible, horrible drug. You live in Amsterdam... surely you can avail yourself of some hashish if you need a relaxing but non-brain-damaging drug to loosen you up...
OK, that being said, let's start with the mechanics of the asshole. There are two sphincters in the "anus" ~ that being the name of the lowest chamber of the intestinal tract. Most men of average penis size only have to deal with busting through the first sphincter. But anyone with a real 8 inches or more will experience passage through the second sphincter far more frequently. Since everyone is built differently, the internal distance between the two sphincters varies. But it's safe to say that a hung top fucking a man of smaller stature will most likely encounter and penetrate this second, hidden sphincter. And because each anus is different, the twists and turns inside your anus are an important factor in the successful breaching of sphincter #2.
Not everyone is constructed to receive everything that is targeted for his ass. I once had a lover who desperately wanted me to fist him. We tried over and over again. He even took muscle relaxers hoping that would help. But we never succeeded in getting my hand up there past the thumb. I think it was because his pelvis was too narrow to allow anything the size of my fist through there. It disappointed him terribly, but there was nothing we could do to make it happen. I have also fucked a few bottoms that couldn't open that second sphincter. It was like hitting a wall with my dick. But that's just how they were built, and all the pushing in the world wasn't going to get me through Sphincter Lock Number Two. If you are like those guys, you may have to accept that you can only take so much up your ass and make the most of it.
Here's one idea you can try: Practice using big toys. Find a dildo that is around the size of your boyfriend's cock (maybe a little bigger overall), and have him work it into you gently until he slips it through that stubborn sphincter. Or, get one of those "Make Your Own Dildo" kits and have fun making a dildo of his massive cock (then make copies and sell 'em). As he plays with it in your ass, he'll find the angle(s) that allow for deeper penetration. That will be helpful in determining which positions you should try if you want to get all of him up inside you.
In my personal past I have found that bottoms who have trouble getting me all in will fare better if they sit on my cock to start with. A few have preferred that I fuck them on their belly. Once I get in, though, most can take a long, deep pounding doggy style (that's the best position to get me to cum). Again, your best position will be based on your physical construction and the angle your boyfriend thrusts into you. Sitting on his cock puts you more
in control of getting that meat in you.
Next subject... I have to say that I find the idea of you trying on your boyfriend's brothers' cocks both really fucked up and highly erotic at the same time. Talk about a totally twisted fantasy... And you just glossed over that little tidbit, but I caught it and it gave me wood! So did you fuck his brothers to prove a point, or have you become the family's bitch? Did you take his brothers' loads? Man, the whole idea is working me! So is the idea of a naked Christmas card featuring all those well-hung brothers. Woof!
Well, I do hope you find a way to get him all the way in. I know from the top's perspective that the feeling of a bottom's first sphincter kissing my pubes while the second one is swallowing my head is one of the most intense feelings to be had during a hot session of raw fucking. I hope someday your boyfriend will feel that with you and you with him. And once he gets that far into you, he'll be shooting his loads where other men have no hope of reaching.
Lucky you!
I have a gold star waiting for you when you guys hit that spot.
~ Bareback Jack
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